A few months back I tried the online dating thing. There are
some weirdo’s out there…and today I encountered one of them! I took my profile
down because I had had enough of 200 messages a day, marriage proposals from
strangers, harassment from STRANGERS that think that 50 Shades of online dating
was what I wanted, and messages from married couples asking me if I’d date them
…the list goes on. There was a guy that stood out to me that I thought was
really nice. He was tall and a redhead! I mean…the red hair alone stands out
and we’d chatted online every day for a bit. Suddenly he didn’t return my
message (and since I’m not crazy and don’t chase people, and the ball was in
his court, I didn’t message again. I let it go!)
Today, a few months after that last message, I’m getting on
the train and I notice this tall redhead with glasses sitting in a seat with an
empty seat beside him. I immediately recognize him AS I’m sitting down…like
mid-sit. I try to play it cool and then I look down and see HE HAS A WEDDING
RING ON!! A WEDDING RING!! I look at him dead in the eyes with my “You’re a
f*ckface” death look. My butt doesn’t even touch the seat and I get up and find
another seat…which I almost immediately regret because there weren’t many seats
and I had to go a ways down to get one…but FINE… the further away from him the
better.
So, here is my question…technically he didn’t cheat. Maybe
it’s called emotional cheating! Is it fair for him to A. emotionally cheat on
his wife by claiming he is single on an online dating site and B. Waste a woman’s
time who truly wants a relationship and chatted with him for clearly…
NOTHING?!?
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